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Barbara Dafoe Whitehead holds a PhD. She has three adult children and lives in Amherst, Massachusetts with her husband. You mention in the acknowledgments that you have two single daughters in their thirties.

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Your previous book is about divorce, and you're a rifht of a scholarly organization called the National Marriage Project at Rutgers. How did your interest in family issues develop? It really began with my interest in the social history Tehachapi nude.

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I realized back then that socially and culturally things were changing pretty fast in American family life. Gradually, as part of my work, I got interested in divorce and marriage and the whole question of how people choose their mates.

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The book looks at the contemporary mating system and why some of the most accomplished women of our day are finding it a struggle to find the right man at the right time in remale lives. Is lookiing your sense that society as a whole suffers in some way if highly educated professional women must struggle to find mates—and that society should therefore for its own good take it upon itself to change the situation?

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It's about an important set of social changes. The impact of divorce on children, which I wrote about in my previous book, is a social problem. Femalw the reason I write about the romantic plight of the new single woman isn't femlae society is going to be damaged if she doesn't find the right man on the right time on the right terms. It's because college-educated women mf been the authors of social change.

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What fields do you think could shed useful light on the subject? I think a broad range of the human and social sciences—from anthropology to religion to economics to literature—could shed some light on today's dating and mating practices. You write that the new "chick lit" genre of fiction about smart, well-educated women having trouble finding good men is analogous to genres that appeared in earlier eras when the courtship system was also in upheaval.

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You explain Sweet housewives seeking sex tonight Prescott in Medieval France the great chivalric poem the Roman de la Rose, for example, offered instructions for jobless young men on how to win a lady. Blk female looking for mr right the "chick lit" genre offer that same kind of instructive element?

Or is it more just an expression of frustration with things as they are? But chick lit fiction is really a cultural indicator of the absence of a common set of rules and rituals to guide women and men in their contemporary courtship practices.

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It is evidence of a watershed Housewives seeking sex tonight Sabula when we have mating systems in transition: I recruited them through ads in alumni magazines and public radio magazines. Some of the women who were referred to me took a little recruitment ad that I wrote and put it out on their e-mail networks.

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Well, that would have been the best way to do a comparative scholarly investigation. But as I say in the introduction, this is just a journalistic first sketch of the subject. Given the limitations of resources and time, I focused exclusively on women who weren't married. It would be very worthwhile to look at a similar sample of women who were married, because I do expect that there would be interesting differences. You mention a book about women and career achievement called See Jane Win, which you describe as "a study of the girlhood paths followed Blk female looking for mr right older successful women.

One book that looks at dating and mating practices in an earlier era is by Beth Bailey.

Her analysis covers the period from the s to the s. It's in the spirit of what I'm trying to do, which is to look at the broad and deep changes in the social rules and practices of dating. You talk about how in recent decades girls have been raised to be more competitive, strong, and assertive than they were in the past.

Did the women you talked to feel that those qualities were somehow a detriment to them when it came to romance? Not particularly. Several fo mentioned that at Blk female looking for mr right in their life they felt that their intelligence or intellectual achievement seemed to work against them in their romantic relationships with men, but most women felt that there were some men "out there" who would be attracted to smart women. The problem was finding them.

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Their ultimate sense of what they want in life includes family and children, but they aren't willing to contemplate the Bl that they therefore will probably have to give up some of their own individual pursuits and career goals. I think the definition of success includes both love and work, and that the challenge is how to sequence that.

There is always a certain amount of choice and compromise Blk female looking for mr right. You mention that studies have shown that it's the women who are better educated and wait longer to think about getting married who tend to have more stable, long-lasting marriages than women in other demographic groups.

But that seems sort of counterintuitive; you'd think the fact that they're spending their early adulthoods learning to become independent might make it more difficult for them to later fema,e themselves into family life where the collective welfare of the family takes precedence over individual pursuits. I think that people who are a little older and more mature and who have had a chance to do at least some of the things that people today feel they Blk female looking for mr right to do in order to make a wise judgment about a partner are more likely to eventually end up in a stable kind of marriage.

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A recurring theme in your description of the cohort of women whose plight you're addressing is their having been raised to win prizes, achieve, and generally go after the best of everything. Are these women to some extent seeking impressive husbands as trophies?

Are there nice men who express romantic interest in them, but whom these women won't have anything to do with because they're not high enough up the ladder of achievement, or because it's too early yet to tell how far they'll go? What the women Feel horny in Blue rapids Kansas spoke with said was that they want a husband who is independent and dedicated to his career, but that he doesn't have to make a lot of money.

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The emphasis was always on finding a best friend—a soul mate—someone you could tell all your troubles to and who would be supportive.